Course Benefits

What You Will Learn
  • Identify clues that developmental needs were not met
  • Understand parenting styles and which one has the best outcomes for children. 
  • Understand the concept of connection and regulation before correction.
  • Learn a variety of parenting strategies that are helpful in raising an older adopted child. 
  • Understand stress management and learn practical ways to relieve stress. 

What you will get
  • Learning activities and process questions to help reinforce learning
  • Tools and tips in caring for an adopted child
  • Ways to evaluate your own techniques

Course Curriculum

    1. Introduction

    2. Preparing and Processing

    1. Developmental Needs

    2. Types of Parenting Styles

    3. Your Parenting Style

    4. Is Love Really Enough?

    5. What is Grit?

    6. What Do You Think?

    7. Think on These Questions

    1. #1 - Stress Management

    2. What Do You Do?

    3. #2 - Connecting Strategies

    4. Applying the Connecting Principles

    5. #3 - The Problem is Not the Problem

    6. Willful or Survival

    7. #4 - Empathy Coaching

    8. #5 - Regulation and Deregulation

    9. Other Parenting Strategies

    1. Final Thoughts

    2. Homework Instructions

    3. Parent A Homework Response Sheet

    4. Parent B Homework Response Sheet

    5. End of Course Evaluation

About this course

  • Free
  • 23 lessons
  • 1.5 hours of video content

Meet Your Instructors

Shelly Utzke, MAM

Statewide Director of Foster Care

Before becoming the Statewide Director of Foster Care, Shelly served as a Foster Family Specialist, Coordinator, Supervisor, and then the Program Manager at Christian Family Care. Before her employment with CFC, she spent 14 years at A New Leaf serving youth and families. Shelly and her husband fostered children for 25 years and have adopted two children. Shelly earned her associate’s in Early Childhood Development, a bachelor’s in Psychology, and her Master’s in Management.

Nicole Appiah, M.Ed.,LBSW

Foster Care and DCS Adoption Program Manager

Before becoming Program Manager of Foster Care and DCS Adoptions, Nicole served as a Foster Family Supervisor at Christian Family Care. Before employment with CFC, she spent 16 years at Department of Children and Families in the state of Massachusetts as an Ongoing and Hotline Supervisor and Ongoing and Hotline/Investigations Social Worker. Nicole earned her Master’s Degree in Education with a concentration in Mental Health Counseling. In addition, Nicole is a Licensed Social Worker in the state of Massachusetts and a Licensed Baccalaureate Social Worker in the state of Arizona.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Why should I take this course?

  • Will I receive a certificate of completion for the course?

    Yes! Every course comes with a certificate of completion that has been approved by the Arizona Department of Child Safety when the last lesson is reached. This certificate will have the learner's name, the title of the course, the credit hours, and the date of completion.

  • Can I watch the courses together with my spouse or do we each have to have our own log in?

    Just like our in-person courses, the pricing is based per participant. Each purchase should be logged under an individual’s name, and only that name will be tied to the proof of participation.

  • What is the format of the course content?

    Each of the courses are made up of a variety of modules with lessons within each. These lessons are made up of short videos to watch. Learners must complete the video before they can advance to the next lesson. There is also a variety of “process questions” throughout each lesson to help learners apply lessons from the videos. Each learner must also complete a final assessment quiz to receive a certificate.

  • Can I interact with other people/instructors in the course?

    Yes! Each lesson has a forum where learners can either post or answer a question for discussion to keep the learning going.